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Hair & Insecurities



Hair holds power. It’s more than just a part of our physical appearance; it’s woven into the very fabric of our identity, our culture, and our history. For many black women, hair is a journey—one that can be fraught with insecurities, societal pressures, and a quest for acceptance. But it’s also a journey of discovery and self-love.

From a young age, many black women are bombarded with images and messages that subtly—and sometimes overtly—suggest that our natural hair isn’t beautiful, professional, or desirable. The media often portrays silky, straight hair as the gold standard, leaving those with coils and kinks feeling ‘unpretty’. This pervasive narrative can plant seeds of doubt and insecurity, making us question the very strands that grow naturally from our heads.

The natural hair movement has been a powerful force in challenging these outdated beauty standards. It’s a testament to our resilience and our desire to reclaim our narratives. By wearing our hair in its natural state, we send a bold message: our hair, in all its textured glory, is beautiful and worthy of celebration.

Yet, even within this movement, insecurities can linger. The journey to self-acceptance isn’t always linear. It’s okay to have days when you struggle with your hair, just as it’s okay to explore different styles, whether natural, braided, or even relaxed. What matters is that the choice is yours and that it stems from a place of self-love rather than societal pressure.

Knowledge is power. Understanding the unique needs of our hair can transform our relationship with it. Type 4 hair, with its tight curls and coils, is more prone to dryness and breakage. This isn’t a flaw but a fact of its structure. Knowing this allows us to care for it more effectively. Moisture is our hair’s best friend. Regular deep conditioning, using leave-in conditioners, and sealing with natural oils like shea butter or coconut oil can keep our hair hydrated and healthy. Protective styles such as braids, twists, and bantu knots can give our hair a break from daily manipulation, reducing breakage and promoting growth.

Creating a hair care routine that suits your lifestyle and hair needs can be incredibly empowering. It’s a form of self-care, a ritual that allows you to connect with your hair on a deeper level. Whether it’s a weekly wash day, a nightly scalp massage, or a monthly deep conditioning treatment, these moments are opportunities to nurture yourself and your hair.

Insecurity often stems from comparison. But what if we shifted our focus from what our hair isn’t to what it is? Our hair is versatile, allowing us to switch up styles and express ourselves in countless ways. It’s resilient, bouncing back from manipulation and styling. And most importantly, it’s ours, a unique part of our identity that no one else can claim.

It’s okay to feel vulnerable about your hair. It’s okay to seek reassurance and support. But remember, your hair doesn’t define your worth. It’s a beautiful part of who you are, but it’s not the sum total of who you are.

The journey with your hair is deeply personal. It’s filled with highs and lows, moments of doubt, and moments of triumph. Through it all, know that you are not alone. Your hair is a testament to your history, your culture, and your unique beauty. Celebrate it, care for it, and most importantly, love it—just as it is.

Love MPL

Your Hair Doctor.

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